Safety First…

In response to the Daily Post, “Safety First”, Share the story of a time you felt unsafe.

I have felt unsafe on many occasions in my life, mostly due to feel mentally and emotionally unsafe in response to the people around me. This caused by being around people that I can’t trust or can’t relax around.

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courtesy of clipart/jonata

I understand that I cannot control others’, nor their actions and expressions, but I can control with whom I allow myself to interact except for while I am at work. I limit contact with people who are erratic, narcissistic, and those who do not value me or Boyfriend. This is one of many reasons I sought out and accepted a new job almost two months ago. I could not trust the people with whom I worked and had to depend upon over the past two years, as workers and as people. You can tell when someone is phony and/or untrustworthy when they smile at you and then stop/start talking to someone else as you leave/enter a room. Or when they only engage you to get information for their benefit, but not for the sake of conversation. You can tell that someone only talked to you and appreciated your “friendship” when you were both in frequently proximity, but you don’t hear from them when you no longer see each other at the office.

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courtesy of clipart/doctormo

I felt unsafe, rather vulnerable, often as a child and teenager because I was teased and had few friends. The friends I had were also people who were teased or had few friends, and would sometimes leave me for other friends with parents that were more lenient with their rules or bought the newest, coolest gadgets.  I rarely felt physically unsafe but the stress and emotional strain was not easy to deal with for years and years, and I was outnumbered, which I was lucky to not have been physically threatened. As an adult, I try to pull from the lessons these experiences taught me, especially to be myself and to seek out people who are respectful and accepting of me and my uniqueness. You don’t have to agree with me but be open to new ideas. I would rather have a small circle of people I can trust than a large circle of people who I call into question. It’s best to be safe than sorry!

Doing a 180… and the importance of being informed

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “180 Degrees.”

I grew up on the Southwest side of Chicago, the land of city workers, police, fire fighters, union workers  Chicago Public School teachers and Democrats. That’s the way it is still is, especially in my old neighborhood and many in that region. Not that there’s anything wrong with that specifically, but you should  grow and a change and learn new things as you get older. Just going along to getting along is what most people do, which is why Chicago and many other cities are in shambles.  It’s why the United States is in trouble. Questioning the status quo and seeking information does not make you unpatriotic or a conspiracy theorist, it makes you an informed person.  There is too much trust in government and politicians at all levels that they have the people’s best interests in mind, and they take advantage of this.

It was about seven years ago that Boyfriend and I started reading more and started seeking news from alternative sources other than the alphabet news channels (CNN, MSNBC, CBS, ABC, NBC, Fox and FBN), such as Infowars.com, theblaze.com, Naturalnews.com, lewrockwell.com and truthinmedia.com. They don’t give you the whole story, and sometimes give you a slanted version of the truth, depending on their ownership and sponsors. Out of convenience, I do still get some of my news from these other sources but hold them in a different regard than I did before. There is a wealth of knowledge out there if you look for it and care to know the truth on the internet, on the radio, and in books. You will find some of the truth scary, depressing, shocking, and angering but you will be informed about the world around you. I came across a video recently of Hillary Clinton supporters who were presented with the exact opposite of what she supports and the people did not know fact from fiction. While some might discredit the video, it shows the sad state of uninformed society who, not only don’t know that they are being duped, but they don’t care that they are being duped. You can find the video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C0SnIgOwZ3A  I’m sure that the same could be found of people blindly supporting other candidates as well. 

I used to automatically support certain candidates and causes without knowing the back story. While I believe that my country should defend itself, I have a different opinion of war after reading “War Is A Racket” by Smedley Butler. I also learned a lot by reading “Confessions of An Economic Hitman” by John Perkins; “None Dare Call It Conspiracy” by Gary Allen; “We The Living” by Ayn Rand; and “Constitutional Chaos” by Andrew Napolitano.  I would recommend each of these books and many more to anyone interested in history, war, the economy, the government’s role in many areas of life, or freedom and liberty. I have trouble grasping some of the reality and concepts of how our world works, but the puzzle begins to make sense the more pieces you put together. I am no longer someone who goes with the grain or votes with the grain. I believe that there are a few politicians who are more for the good of the people, that support true liberty and freedom, and who do want to serve honestly. I support them, cautiously, and am not so tied to a party as I was, though I now lean Tea Party/Libertarian rather than Democrat. So much focus on regulating, protecting this right or that right, and how someone might be offended does nothing but detract from everyone’s right, in my opinion. 

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